10 March 8, 2007
Posted by Han in : Human Relationship , trackbackDo you often find yourself feeling uneasy and awkward in front of other people? Do you find meeting people is such a stressful thing to do? Do you have difficulties conversing with people? You are afraid of saying the wrong things or you are often lost of words. Then I will strongly recommend you to read the below:
I would like to share to you 10 tips that I’ve learned from a motivation book that are very helpful to foster a good relation with others. These are the general rules and guidelines which can be applied to any environment you are in.
10 tips to build a good human relationship:
1) Speak to people. There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting.
2) Smile at people. It takes seventy-two muscles to frown, only fourteen to smile.
3) Call people by name. Music to anyone’s ears is the sound of his/her own name.
4) Be friendly and helpful.
5) Be cordial (warm and sincere). Speak and act as if everything you do is genuinely a
pleasure, and if it isn’t, learn to make it so.
6) Be genuinely interested in people. You can like almost everybody if you try.
7) Be generous with praise, cautious with criticism.
8) Be considerate with the feelings of others. There are usually three sides to a
controversy: yours, the other fellow’s, and the right one.
9) Be alert to serve. What counts most in life is what we do for others.
10) Add to this a good sense of humor, a big dose of patience, and a dash of humility, and you will be rewarded manifold through life.
Lastly, I want to share to you the GOLDEN WORDS that will help you to get along with people:
SIX most important words that will soften any tension in a relationship:
“I admit I made a mistake.”
The FIVE most important words that others would like to hear:
“You did a good job.”
The FOUR most important words that will give others due respect:
“What do you think?”
The THREE most important words that places others of importance than us:
“After you please.”
The TWO most important words that will show appreciation to others:
“Thank you.”
The ONE most important word that will discourage self-centeredness:
“We”
The LEAST important word:
“I”
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